ZMannZilla
Thank you for clarifying that, I admit not being fully certain what you were referring to. Blessed are those who don't "think those things".
Some say it's a built-in feature of humans, to seek out what's different between people and assign one thing as Good and another as Bad. (Even Dr. Seuss touched on that in The Butter Battle Book.)
It is good, IMO, that you realize others do think that way, even if it's not correct to say "everyone" thinks that way (even if, IMO, everyone does to some degree).
ZMannZilla
I realize this goes into a completely different discussion and I don't want to change the direction of this thread, but...
I offer that the media has this habit of taking stuff said by famous people, whether they are still in the public eye or not, and making something big of it.
Some people grab a microphone, some people say stupid things locally and it gets transmitted globally. The scale is thrust upon them, they didn't try to take it, so they are held to a different standard. It's one thing for Tom Cruise to say on national TV that mental health science is a hoax, but another for some person who used to be on a TV show years ago to be filmed by a citizen or shrubbery papparazzi speaking their mind on the phone about someone in rough terms. But enough of this tangent.
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On track... All things are not equal, even if the reason why they are not is because someone said they weren't. By that I mean that there's no real reason why "faggot" is supposed to be the worst epithet to throw at a homosexual or "cunt" is supposed to be the worst epithet to throw at a woman. There are more cutting things one can say! "Faggot" in meaning is more tame than, say, "AIDS bait", and "cunt" is anatomical while "cum dumpster" actually has something degrading to it. "Nigger" is kinda played out and lacks any oomph, compared to stuff like "spear chucker" or "rapist".
But people like their language and their concepts simple, so dropping more weight into some simple word that doesn't necessarily mean what it comes to carry happens. I prefer to be more creative. Calling some annoying woman "acid-snatch" makes people have to think about it, where "cunt" simply means you don't like the person but some people are taking that as the ultimate insult.
Pardon the paragraphing here, lines kept scrolling out to infinity so I had to break them.
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Say something cryptic then leave snickering.