This is the really sick part; you wait for god knows how long, watching shitty life after shitty life, and when you finally get judged...
Yes?
It's the same - all that changes is that in Heaven you only watch the lives already judged as good, and in Hell its the bad ones on the bill. For the rest of eternity.
I don't know why they bother with that "first and second stage afterlife" bullshit. Hell is all there's been for centuries, one way or another.